This or That (Ua)

Dog or Cat?

Puppies because I sometimes still get scared of big dogs and cats just don’t seem to like me.

Netflix or YouTube?

Both? I can’t live without either.

Phone Call or Text?

I find it easier to text but sometimes I take too long to reply so people tend to just call. I also think that some conversations is better when you can hear the other person’s voice. 

Toast or Eggs?

I love my toast! Especially when it just comes out of the toaster and the better melts!

Cardio or Weights?

How about neither? I hate both but if I have to choose then I would go with Cardio.

Facebook or Twitter?

Facebook. I have a twitter account but I am rarely on it. I know for a fact that I haven’t posted anything on there since 2015 and that was for a competition. 

Ice Cream Cone or Snow Cone?

Both! I love both equally!

Mobile Games or Console Games?

Considering I only play mobile games, that’s what I am going to choose.

While walking: Music or Podcasts?

Music For sure! I love a good podcast but when walking, nothing beats music.

iOS or Android?


Pop or Indie?

Pop since I am not really in to Indie Music. I appreciate it but would not choose it over Pop.

Cake or Pie?

I can never resist a good cake! Cake over Pie any day! 

Swimming or Sunbathing?

Sunbathing isn’t really something that I have ever done but I love to swim so I guess you know what my choice is going to be.

Big Party or Small Gathering?

I love small gatherings, especially when it is of people who I love! Big Parties are great but sometimes just having good food with a small amount of people can really mean the world to me. I get to just sit down, relax and have great conversations.

New Clothes or New Phone?

New Phone.

Rich Friend or Loyal Friend?

Having a loyal friend means more than having a friend with money. Someone who has you back no matter what happens and who you know won’t turn around and talk about you the moment you walk away. Loyalty is more valuable than all the money in the world.

Football or Basketball?

Work Hard or Play Hard?

I think that if you work hard the reward is that in the end you get to play hard. You can’t have all work and no play because that would not make you happy but at the same time, you can’t have all play and no hard work because you won’t end up achieving anything.

Nice Car or Nice Home Interior?

Nice Home interior. For me, a car is to get you from Point A to Point B whereas a home is where you live in. I would rather have a great home interior where everything is beautiful and I am comfortable than have a nice car.

What’s worse: Laundry or Dishes?


Jogging or Hiking?

I would enjoy hiking a lot more than jogging. I don’t like running in the first place plus when you hike, the view you get is beautiful.

Bath or Shower?

I tend to take showers mostly because of time restraints and I never seem to have the time but I do love a warm bath to relax in. Baths are more for when I have time to relax and it is a great time to just think. I think everyone (who can) should take a bath once in a while to just soak and reflect. It’s something that I love to do as a pastime and it’s a great way to let yourself be free.

Sneakers or Sandals?

Sneakers for sure but I do love a good jandal (New Zealand slang).

Glasses or Contacts?

I don’t wear either, actually. My eyesight is pretty good so I’m not required to wear glasses or contacts so… sunglasses is my choice?

Hamburger or Taco?

I love a good burger… but tacos are also amazing! When it comes to food, I can never decide!!!

Online Shopping or Shopping in a Store?

I love online shopping just because I’m lazy most of the time, however, I do love a little bit of retail therapy. I enjoy shopping as a pastime and it’s especially fun when you go with a friend of family member. So, I guess I can just say that I love shopping in general and can’t really choose either over the other. 

Receive: Email or Letter?

Let’s be honest, I am lazy! I love just receiving things instantly and I think that letter take too long to receive. Emails are a lot more convenient for me.

Passenger or Driver?

Passenger. Trust me, my family can testify to this.

Tablet or Computer?

Computer for sure! I am the type who loves to open a million things all at once and a tablet doesn’t always give me the right amount of screen space. 

Most important in a partner: Intelligent or Funny?

Can’t I have both?

Car or Truck?

Truck. I love big vehicles and I guess so do many of my family members as they either have a truck or a van.

Blue or Red?

There is just something about the colour BLUE that I absolutely love. It’s calming and it always reminds me of Tonga and it’s beautiful sky and ocean.

Money or Free Time?

This is something that I tend to get annoyed with. I want money but love having free time! What is a girl to do?

Amusement Park or Day at the Beach?

A good day at the beach with family and friends is unbeatable! It’s free, you don’t have to worry about lines and how long it will take to just get on one ride plus you don’t have to constantly worry about getting some space since it’s crowded.

At a movie: Candy or Popcorn?

I can never be at the movies and not munch on popcorn. Candy is great but when relaxing at the movies, I always reach for that Salty and Buttery goodness.

Toilet paper: Over or Under?

Okay, I do not understand what the big deal is with this over or under business? I do NOT  care if it’s over or under as long as there is toilet paper there so I don’t get stuck in the toilet waiting for someone to help. I guess I don’t spend my time pondering on this…

Cups in the cupboard: Right Side Up or Up Side Down?

For our house, and pretty much every house of my friends, family, distant relatives and whoever’s house that I have ever been to, has always been Up Side Down. Something about not have the dust in the cup or something like that. 

Pancake or Waffle?

How about pancakes AND waffles? Best of both worlds.

Coke or Pepsi?

No thank you, L&P please.

Coffee Cup or Thermos?

Thermos are so much more versatile.

Blinds or Curtain?

Curtains because who’s got time for blinds?

Train or Plane?


Meat or Vegetables?


If you didn’t get that, MEAT!

International Vacation or a New TV?


Save or Spend?

I would love to say that I am great and that I save all my money, but let’s be honest… I don’t.

Honesty or Other’s Feelings?

I don’t think lying to someone to “save their feelings” is a good idea because when they find out later that you had not told them truth, they would be more hurt. I would rather tell them now and face the consequences then be quiet about it and have them hate me later. People need the truth but it is also about how you tell them. Don’t be rude or rush in being all cruel.

Coffee or Tea?


TV or Book?


Movie at Home or Movie at the Theater?

I think I am more comfortable at home. A good movie in bed all warm is one of my favourite pastimes. 

Ocean or Mountains?

Of course the OCEAN! You can take the girl out of Tonga but you can never take Tonga out of the girl. Tonga is surrounded by the beautiful pacific ocean and has so many great beaches. The Ocean is a great provider for my people as well.

Horror Movie or Comedy Movie?

Comedy all day, every day! Who doesn’t love a good laugh? It just makes me happy being able to laugh freely.

City or Countryside?

City for sure.

Winter or Summer?

I love the summer and being able to go to the beach and do as much outdoor activity as my heart desires but I also equally love winter and being able to just bundle up in bed with a hot chocolate reading a good book or watching a film.

Mac or PC?


Soup or Sandwich?

Sandwich because I fail at eating Soup. 

Card Game or Board Game?

My family and I love playing card games and it was also a great way for me to have fun with my cousins in Utah while I visited them two months ago. It gets pretty intense and the trash talking sometimes never really make any sense but it’s all good fun and it really does show who the more competitive ones are in the family. 

Classical Art or Modern Art?

Both have such beauty that I don’t really know what to choose… come back to me on this one?

Beer or Wine?

I’m good thanks.

Camping or Binge Watching Shows at Home?


Working Alone or Working in a Team?

Working alone… I find that working in a team sometimes just make me more stressed and I end up doing a lot of work that had been assigned to someone else within the group. I am all for great team work and all that but at the same time, if it’s people that I don’t trust to do the work, I would rather suffer on my own.

Dine In or Delivery?

Delivery… do we not see the pattern here? I like to stay home if I am not traveling.

Sweater or Hoodie?

Hoodie because I just don’t think I suit sweaters… personal preference.

Comic Book or Comic Strips?

Comic strips are easier to access… but I like comic books … I guess both have it’s pros and cons. I don’t know on this one to be honest. 

Motorcycle or Bicycle?

Well, since I can’t actually ride a motorcycle, I will just stick to what I know and choose Bicycle. 

Book or eBook?

Book or sure. Even though eBooks are easier to access and I get that everything is at your fingertips, I still love books. Call me weird but I still like to stick to the old fashion books.

When sleeping: Fan or No Fan?

I don’t actually have a fan so does this question really apply to me?

Ninjas or Pirates?

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It will always be ninjas! I do not care about on going debates over who would win, IT WILL ALWAYS BE NINJAS.

TV Shows or Movies?

Each has it’s pros and cons. A movie is great because you don’t have to wait too long to know the outcome of the story and what happens to your favourite character but it can also be hard to develop the storyline or even develop the characters because of the time restraints. Tv shows on the other hand can easily develop both characters and story plot but it may a long time for you to even be able to know the outcome and sometimes it drags on a certain story plot for too long and gets boring. I love both but sometimes, I hate them too. 


Finally, the second instalment on This or That is done! 

Here is the link to the website that I got the questions from and be sure to check them out.
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Thank you for reading! Stay safe, stay loved!
Until we meet again.




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