Be Your Own Kind Of Beautiful
I think we always tend to spend so much time thinking of how we look and how people see us. I know for myself, I catch myself just spending way too much time thinking about how people see me and whether or not I match up to their standards. In my opinion, even though a lot of people may not admit it out loud, we all care what people think of us. For some lucky people, they don’t think about it too much but for others like myself, we do spend quite a lot of time thinking about it. We judge ourselves on how we look, how we sound and even little things like if we are too loud, too fast or even if we are too much.
I do not think that there is a definite definition of beauty. It changes depending on what the society dictates and unfortunately some of us do not fit within their idea of what a beautiful person looks like. I mean the beauty industry is constantly changing and new looks become popular. As time moves along, so does the definition of beauty. What was popular and beautiful today can be out tomorrow. Magazines, Television and the Media of course play a major roll in which direction this definition moves as they play a major roll in how people as an audience judge beauty.
For me, inner beauty is always the key. Inner beauty goes far beyond just what they look like and their outer appearance. I think this type of beauty is far more important as they show who the person truly is. It is not about the colour of someone’s skin, their hair, the shape of their face or even the frame of their body. It is the way that they behave. It is in the way that they carry themselves, the way that they treat others and the things that they value. Kindness and patience looks way better to me than a pair of pretty eyes. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and for me, beauty is in the personality. Nothing is more gorgeous than a boy who treats his Mama right. I value that over any broad shoulders any day.
I think beauty is also in being yourself. Being true to who you are and sticking to what you believe. Nothing and no one should make you feel like you need to change to suit their tastes. Be fun and spontaneous! Live life the way that you want to and enjoy your life. Be your own kind of beautiful. Create beauty in the way that you want to rather than conforming to what society things that you should be like. Be true to you and your beliefs.
At the end of the day, you are the person who dictates what your life will be like and that includes what you show the world. Be different, be creative and be beautiful in the way that only you can. Be bold and show the world what you are made of. Be kind and be true and overall just be you. No one in the world has the right to take that away from you.
Be your own kind of beautiful.